That is interesting. I just try to be natural. Of course, it helps that most of the time now I AM happy, I have a good job, and things are starting to calm down. I have set limits with people who tend to stress me out, and have told most of my friends who are not supportive to either a) keep their opinions to themselves or b) quit talking to me. It helps that I feel like I am gaining a little control over my own feelings.
The other thing is once I started shutting my ringer off, I don't always answer the phone when H calls because I don't hear it ring. I call back when I get the message. It helps, I think it has made me stop worrying so much about the p hone and him calling me, and also he sees I am not WAITING by the phone for him to call!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..