Only issue is that I need to not be TOO perky with my H. Jody actually told me to tone it down a bit. I am now going for serene, calm, and contemplative rather than exuberant and upbeat.
seconded. I noticed a difference when I stopped trying to be SO DARNED HAPPY ALL THE TIME to yeah, I'm OK, I'm fine.
I called mine the "manic face" .... I was trying so hard to show H how happy I was when I wasn't that it looked too fake. once I calmed down a bit it helped .... also had to get to the detaching stage too, and that was really difficult to do, but eventually managed.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
