Only issue is that I need to not be TOO perky with my H. Jody actually told me to tone it down a bit. I am now going for serene, calm, and contemplative rather than exuberant and upbeat. She said H needs compassion and empathy and if he is depressed and I am wildly happy, it just really looks like I don't care (one of his complaints is that I didn't care about his feelings).
Anyway sorry not trying to hijack the thread!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!