Imageer,

It is hard to detatch when you love them. I have no doubt that I love mine or I would have been done a long time ago.

I know what you mean about the "when _____ happens it will be better" thing.

Mine obviously thought it will be better when we separate, and more recently when the D is final. She is "stressed" constantly now and I have stopped asking why.

If you discover any good detatchment techniques please let me know.

Last edited by sleeper; 08/23/08 05:24 PM.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13