It is hard to detatch when you love them. I have no doubt that I love mine or I would have been done a long time ago.
I know what you mean about the "when _____ happens it will be better" thing.
Mine obviously thought it will be better when we separate, and more recently when the D is final. She is "stressed" constantly now and I have stopped asking why.
If you discover any good detatchment techniques please let me know.
Last edited by sleeper; 08/23/0805:24 PM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.