Well, we don't talk as such really, it is one of my anxieties. We have 2 reasons to communicate at the moment, the house and the finances. I'm not sure whether we would otherwise although when we didn't have those reasons at first he did still contact.
I'm hoping that communicating about those things will make him feel safe around me again and we can build on those. After those issues are resolved who knows. I suppose it is probably once a week we have spurts of communication.
That day we spent doing the house was the first time we had spent any proper length of time together since April! And it was the first time in ages he has released any information about his life and voluntarily spoken about general stuff (no r talks).
