That is a very insightful decision. I know this hurts, but I think you are right. I found out my H was doing the same thing when we split, I guess I should have known when he stopped coming up to bed with me on his nights off. He was calling and texting his EA. It is very painful and no one deserves. You are a great guy and deserve someone who loves you AND respects you. I am not sure she is showing respect to you or Aaron right now. She is cake eating.
Is cutting off all contact something you want to do?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..