Hi Lola,

I'm sorry. I know this is hard, and I'm right there with you trying to power through the periods of dark/dim.

Sounds like you are coping well, not feeling the need to remind him you're there. You're right, he does know you're there, or better yet, maybe he'll start to wonder whether you will always be there, get a little nervous/curious and reach out to you.

Well done on hitting the 4 day mark Lola!

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!