The oddest thing to me is something my H would joke about over and over in our marriage: He always said he would never "cheat," because he's too lazy and it would require too much work to sneak around. I actually believed him.
My H said something similar.....and like you I believed him!!!
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Well he definitely found a lazy way to sneak around -- on the computer! I think the online/internet stuff is definitely contributing to marriage problems in a major way, because it's too easy to sit at home, start chatting and suddenly be wrapped up in somebody. It's much harder, in some ways, to do that in real life since you actually have to make time "out" of the home and be physically away from your family to develop that type of relationship.
Oh no, it's quite easy to do it out of the home too. You just need to be the boss and do it with a member of your staff. Business trips become little 'love trips' and what's even better is the company saves money because they only have to pay for one luxury hotel room not two - so you are doing the business a favour at the same time!!!
Oh , and of course, all the staff know, so when I get taken to official functions I am the only bozo in the room who doesn't know - it was just Fing fantastic!!!!!!!
No wonder I attempted suicide and ended up drugged out my brains for nearly 12 months.
But look at my signature line....it worked out - so never say never!!!!!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
