My counselor pretty much said I am no longer in control..that since he has moved back to OW there is nothing more I can do except move foreward for me and protect my heart
I don't like the sound of your C. It seems to me that she thinks that the best thing for you is to give up on your M rather than help you restore it. I would think seriously about finding a different, pro marriage, solutions based C.
You can only ever control yourself regardless of whether you are happily married or whatever your sitch. I think your C is confusing issues for you. You should always be moving forward for you....that doesn't mean tho' you are moving away from your H and giving up on your M.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
