One more thing. "My" final straw was that X had a year long affair with a stripper!!! Yup, he's a gem!!!
And.....in all honesty, I've been happier since my D than I was during most of our 23 yrs of my M. I've been D'd for 4 1/2 yrs and living with my BF for the last year. Life is good and I don't regret Ding for a nanosecond.
