Well we just got back from our trip to florida/bahamas last night and things went great - Even despite hurricane fay that gave us some crazy weather for half the trip.
It was awesome to be with my H for a week straight. But then I found it really hard to come home and to drop him off at his apartment and go seperate ways. It is just wierd.
He only had a few temper tantrums while we were there, and most of them were about directions and driving. I would sit quietly and not react to his blowing up. He even said to me once afterwards that he was sorry he got mad and that he knows he shouldnt treat me that way & asked why I dont give him any crap back. I said "because then we just go in circles and it isnt productive". He said, I see your point - but you shouldnt have to put up with my temper. I said I am used to it and I try not to let it affect me.
Overall, this trip was great for about 5 days, and then the last two days - I could feel him sort of distancing. He got a cold and got irratable towards the end.
He thanked me a lot for taking him, and I think he really appreciated it.
I am going to see my family today all alone as expected. He gave the work excuse again to me so he would not have to come. Oh well. TIPPER
