Breton interesting you point out the 18 months. It was really at that point that I saw a few baby steps working in our direction. Prior h had no interest and even at 18 months it was still tough.

2 years later he seems to be connecting more each month.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"