I've noticed on a couple of threads that there are people still "standing" for the M in spite of the fact that their S has remarried or is living with OP. In one case the H moves back and forth between OW and W and it's been tolerated for years.
Yet......most everyone gives the LB's kudos for being strong, praying and "standing." If anyone goes onto their thread and tries to give them a 2x4 for not moving on and putting their kids through this they're met with venom. Instead they're praying that God will show their S the way.
I'd like to know why the moderators/counselors are not encouraging these people to move on, save their kids, read DB, (which some have admitted to not reading) etc.