She told the D-7 that they were moving into an appartment the other day and bless her heart, she didn't bother to tell her that daddy wasn't coming with! I was walking my D up to the school yesterday for "meet the teacher" night and she asked when we were moving into our appartment. I said "you and mommy you mean"? She asked me why I wasn't moving with them, and I just said, "mommy wants a place of her own". My W met us at the school and we met the teacher and finished getting her registered. We joked, and I flirted a little. Then we went to get her signed up for after school daycare.

My wife decided to pull her out of the program at the YMCA and move her into one that she had heard about because our D didn't seem to enjoy the Y's. I walked into this place, and felt like I was in a rat hole!!!! It was nothing but a small store front with 1 activity room. The people there didn't seem to have their act together at all. I was very uncomfortable, and my wife noticed. She kept asking me what was wrong, and I said "nothing". She knew better though, and after I paid the money, we were walking to the parking lot and she said "what's the deal?". I replied "aww, it's probably just my obssessive nature or something". I tried to leave it alone, but she pressed the issue and I just flat out told her "I'm just not comfortable okay!". Then I got in my truck and left. I don't know if this was a bad thing to say or not, being that I'm supposed to act as if and all. When it comes to my kid, I tend to get very emotional and she knows that. Even when we were inside the "rat hole", and she asked me what was wrong, it was almost as if she were "taunting". She had this grin on her face as if to say "finally, you know you can't control something, and it's eating you alive isn't it?"

Maybe she wasn't feeling that way, but it sure seemed so.


Me: 31
W: 34
D: 7

Together: 13 yrs.
Married: 7/19/97 :11 yrs

Bomb: 3/07
1st separation: 3/07
Back together: 4/07
Best 6 months of our life 4/07-2/08
2nd bomb: 3/08
separated again: 5/08
Moved back in against her wishes: 8/3/08