Hey thats ok tiger...I'm glad things are looking up for you!

I am really intrigued that he said he was looking at a job up North... what did you make of that? Do you think thats his way of breaking away from the aub (and the sitch the three of you are in) but also, I dont see him not contacting you anymore. Interesting that he wants to move back closer to his parents too.

Sweet that he let out a sigh when he hugged you and very telling too. God why cant they just say whats on their minds !???? Why do they have to be so flippin mysterious!? Drives me nuts. Did you DB coach say anything about that? I suppose the shared complaining thing shows what you value, if you have joint gripes or can empathise with one another, not sure what she hoped you would gain, maybe just an increaded connection I guess.

I thought you were super brave to ask him about your wedding anniversary, I dont know where you find the courage to come out with stuff like that..funny that he was stunned for a moment !

Well, things not so hot for me, but hey, at least it stopped raining at last..
Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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