Oh Essie Future Girl, I have tears in my eyes. I'm SO HAPPY that your H manned-up. All your patient waiting and reflection has paid off and you are totally a Babe In Total Control!!
I think you're totally right to focus on having fun and no pressure- perfect, and so pleased he felt relieved at your response. I'm also so happy that he thought about the date and took you to somewhere special and meaningful. Is that a change for him?
Oh, and YIPPPEEEEE for lots of pash! Love it!!
What next? Are you going to contact him or wait? A message to say you had a good time and thank him for arranging it perhaps?
I'm watching and waiting with baited breath, you success you!!
