D is not always the end.....and it does often polarise the WAS's mind and get them questioning things. Like Sara said, what you are doing seems to be working.....keep on doing it. Many a person on here has had the D halted at the last minute....or even reconciled afterwards.

BTW, when my H was having his A I lost lots of weight and he said that it hurt him not to be being intimate with him because he thought I was so hot!!! ;\) Flaunt it girl.

Good Luck

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength