Hello peace- I also think you are doing the right thing. You are firmly letting him know that the D isn't what you want but at the same time you are letting him know you aren't going to stand in his way. He can have his freedom is that is what he chooses...but with that choice, there will be a consequence. It is all up to him.
For me it has been better to not know what my H is doing. It just frustrates me and hurts me when I feel my H is intentionally excluding or choosing someone else's company over mine.
Weird that your H keeps dying his hair...is he really going gray??? My H told me today that he is getting a bunch of cosmetic dental work done. I have always wanted to grow old gracefully but now as it is staring me in the face, I might want to put up a little bit of a fight. Is this what our H's are doing...or does it go beyond that????
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No going back only forward and forward is good with or without him
I love this. Regardless of whether or not your are standing, move forward. Life is short and life is precious...live for today and tomorrow...and keep a little bit of hope that your H will figure things out.
