Hi Peace,
I'm a newbie & have never posted to you before - sorry you are going through this.
My sitch is similar - my H filed & I have to answer it soon. I also want to respond like you did - that I will consider reconciliation with C.
I say detach as much as you can & stall the D too - the hair coloring is a sign he's in a panic.
As I've read on many other posts - it ain't over til it's over.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10