Hi Peace, I'm a newbie & have never posted to you before - sorry you are going through this. My sitch is similar - my H filed & I have to answer it soon. I also want to respond like you did - that I will consider reconciliation with C. I say detach as much as you can & stall the D too - the hair coloring is a sign he's in a panic. As I've read on many other posts - it ain't over til it's over.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10