I do not want to get back together w/ XH, but I wish I could be in a healthy, stable R with someone else.
hey princess, big hugs))))))))))))))))))))) You will be ready for a nic R when you feel like you DON"T need to be in an R. I was so desperate to have someone, anywone with me right after the final bomb that I hurt to thing I'd be alone without a man in my life. I've calmed down and have embraced my life and love who I am and what I have and realize that no man will complete me, I"m happy the way I am, and if God sees it fit to send me a companion (yes, I pray for a good man if it is his will) then great, if not, then God is sparing me hearache and knows that living on my own is the best thing for me.
We dont' know what the future hold, but it is there, for us to take any road we want and be as happy as we want to be.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
