But my concern is since my H is "in love" & in the MLC fog nothing would suit him more than if I detach. When he notices I'm going on with my life, it frees him of his guilt & is he not thinking "see, she's going to be fine, what I'm doing is not so bad". (?????)


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10