Sometimes Dar, we need to remember that "we" are the prize, NOT the WAS.

He needs to get to a point where he needs to win you back.

You don't need to try and keep appeasing him.

MLC or not, they still need to make their own choices and realize that when they walked away they caused a family to break apart and for trust to be violated.

They need to earn it back, in their time.

Love him from a distance.

Pray for him.

Let him feel the loss of losing you, let him miss you.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.