Strong Boundaries and Standing up for myself

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Frank, I just spent an hour catching up with your life. I'm sorry that things have taken a turn for the worse for you.

That being said, I think you did the right thing in asking her to leave and you seem 100% better since you did. Sometimes things have to get worse before they can get better.

There isn't much to say that hasn't already been said about you putting the focus back on yourself. You need to find your center again so that you can more forward with your life.

I can very much relate to the financial troubles you are going through. I went through financial hell before the bomb. It is the root of everything my W and I are going though in my mind.

Having come out the other side of a financial mess. I want to tell you that a house is just a house. If selling it or selling the prius gets you out of the hole you are in, then do it. there is no shame in it and it is honestly indiscribable how much of a weight is lifted from your shoulders when the debt is gone. If you put yourself in a position where you have to work at 110% just to live you will end up resenting everything. I am almost 3 years form my financial melt down and I am very nearly completely debt free. I look back at the stress, anxiety, sleeplessness ect. that I went through and I will never do it again. Trust me, it's not worth it.