Here's what you aren't getting - continuing to let him is NOT the same as telling him it's time to make up his mind.
And no wonder you aren't getting it when I said it so confusingly.
NOT continuing to let him go on as is, is what I meant.
Trying some different actions to see what impact they have on your R isn't the same as giving him that ultimatem, at all. And I think those actions give you a better shot at getting the answer you ultimately want.
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