I only have a moment today but I had to offer you sympathy and support. I know it must be really scary to think of being jobless!
However....lets just all pray and I know something will turn up for you soon. Stay as positive as possible, dear! Just put it out of your mind until after the birthday!
Next week, you can develop a plan.
At a minimum, you can get unemployment until you find a new job, right?
And also, it may be good for your wife's depression for her to get at least a part time job.
In any case, WE KNOW you can recover from this...just stay focused on the positive and He will help you...