It's nice to hang out with someone whom I respect and respects me. That's been missing for far too long.
Ain't that the truth!
I really wish sometimes our STBXHs would go back to being that way, but frankly I don't see that happening in my stitch either. There's only so much BS we can tolerate!
I don't think I can ever get back to the place where I respected him. He'd have to do a complete 180 and keep it up for a really loooong time to earn my respect back.
I do not miss him at all anymore. I miss what we had, our family, but not him. At this point I really wish I could just not ever see him again, but alas, with young kids our contact is daily.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09