I would definitely vote for letting him say ILY first. The pressure of him having to say it after you do, versus the pressure he has wondering when he should say it is worse.
My H said it to me, and I know it's going to take your H longer. Everything took longer for him! lol so just wait, it'll happen. plus, he did put on his ring that one day before you did right?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
