So, for all the women who wonder if they should ML to their H, I would answer with a qualified if you're comfortable with it, then yes.
I agree, and also with what maninmotion had to say before that. My H had shared the very same perspective with me not too long ago, and he doesn't see the physical intimacy as just sex. We're ML, regardless of what's going on with our M. I take this as a way of him showing me some respect and that my feelings do matter in what we do together.
Keep this physical connection with your H, but ONLY if YOU are emotionally comfortable with it.
If after the fact you find yourself feeling like you're being used, then don't. You will be causing yourself more pain than you already need.
Take care.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
