Dan, I've told him that many times including last night. I need to show him.
Good. I told my W until she was blue in the face, but, my actions didn't really change. Now, we are in the middle of Don't Ask Don't Tell and yet my actions are changing and I think generating positive results.
That said, saying it again last night was I believe still important.
I'm confident that you'll get past this pothole as well.