I asked XH about ds swimming lessons and he told me she's beginning today. He proceeded to tell me I have 2 choices today.
1. he drops D off home at 7pm as we had planned or 2. he'll pick me up around 5 and then leave me at the club with D while he has class. Then he'll pick us up from the club after his class.
Now, we could have proceeded with choice 1 and he wouldn't have had to have anything to do with me today or choice 2 where he has to be around me. Ok sure I can read into this but as I see it he could have stuck with choice 1 easily.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*