My D10 just got off the phone..he told her we always talked of divorce and only stayed together for the kids..so not true...
yes we have thrown in out in the heat of the moment but only one time did we majorly discuss it..we both said we loved each other too much and could never do it...
i texted him this:
Now who is telling lies...just to justify your actions. we did not fake our marriage for the kids.. i remember our one major divorce talk..we concluded we could not do it because we loved each other. we both failed to communicate.. and you chose to cheat instead of fight for us..dont tell our kids we were never happy..that is crap..these kids will hate **OW** you turned to her insteadof me.you are an amazing actor all the things you have said and our intimacy..unreal..i truely hope she makes you happy..just remember to communicate.
here is what he said..
Nice... you have to get these kids in the middle(I DIDNT>>HE DID) whether you want to see it or not Sandy, had you taken care of your man he never would have to look out side the box..weeks upon weeks of no intimacy and telling me im last on the list for anything had a part to play
Here is what i said I know that.. you put her in the middle by saying that.. maybe i didnt know how to open up..i have learned alotand i tried to show you .. i was even brave enough to say i needed more from you ..remeber me telling you all these years i need more attention from you outside of the bedroom..it goes both ways but i was not trying to put blame on you..just change my mistakes..i was willing once i knew.. and it was before i knew about OW..i changed because of my deep love for you..i am sorry it is too late..my heart is breaking..you are my world and it is shattered..i am sorry i let you down as a wife.. i thought we were good.. i tried to take on all the responsibilities to make it ewasier for you. tried to bring in money for our family..i know i said i put you on the bottom.. in my heart i never did.. i will be forever sorry.. i love you
