The general consensus is that I need to put the focus on me but I've been centering on XH. I just ordered the 3 session package of telephone coaching and I really think it'll help me get a new perspective. My IC is great but he speaks little English so this telephone thing will be great to get to talk to someone in my native language.
I know he still loves me and cares about me but if I continue on this self destructive path it won't be for long. Its time to show with actions not words.
Thanks
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
