Hi Peter, thanks for stopping by with your thoughts. In a way I was the WAS because emotionally I wasn't there for my H and then he physically became the WAS. I don't know what's worse.
I do need to start again and fresh.
TD, yes I will begin there. I'm going to call and make an appointment with a coach. I wonder if anyone of them in particular is better for me and my sitch.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
