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Jen - I have not posted to you for a while but I have been following. I would also add that your presence here has been a great help and comfort to me, as I am sure to others, and if you decided to no longer participate you would be missed.

I am surprised at the degree of guilt I hear in your posts, and how one-sided it sounds. If I didn't know your sitch better, your posts make it seem like YOU are the WAS. Why is that? If you both are truly working towards healing your R, keep in mind that healing does not happen quickly, and almost certainly will not happen at the same pace. I would think that if there is a mutual effort, if one of you is having a setback the other should be there for support and encouragement, not create an atmosphere of resentment and guilt.

I think you are being too hard on yourself. Take a breather. Let the dust settle from last night, regroup, and start fresh. This road is not a straight line. (((Jen)))