OK ,lets do this, I have a pressing issue that I need help with. First, Thanks NickB, I really felt a connection from her sitch to mine. It is always odd that our sitch's are all so similar.
EH, I tell myself that I don't care what she is doing. It's not true but it works out. I know that there is nothing I can do to stop it so I focus on having a PMA and the kids. I keep really busy.
Now My issue. W asked me today to help her drop off her motorcycle for service.
I'm torn. Do I do it as a friend and nothig will change either better or worse. Or do I refuse, saying," You have chosen to leave me out of your life, I don't want to be 'that guy' you call only when you need something."
When she asked me last night I didn't know what to say so I hesitated and aluded that I'd do it.
What do you guys think?
Last edited by HopefultotheEnd; 08/22/0803:34 PM.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
