Before I was a LBS I was a WAW. Try not to go overboard in any way to show how much you care.
It would be good to follow those, like Puppy, who have experienced it;
"Everyday kindnesses are good too. I used to cover my wife up with the blanket when she fell asleep on the couch, or pull her car into the garage. Not too much of that stuff -- maybe 3-4x/week."
Lost is right, she has to do this on her own. You could end up w/the blame if you try to do it for her.
