maybe he was saying and I would let her back when hellll froze over
maybe
frank you don't want that mess to come back
you don't need to accept crap just because it's crap
like... i moved i didn't realize how much crap I had accumulated, what I held onto because I had spent money on it, how many boxes of things I kept that were broken that I was going to fix...
i filled a 20 ton dumpster
I am throwing away more now that I am moved
don't do that
think of how much cleaner, less stressful my life would have been without boxes of crap that I was going to fix laying around
there were some nice things didn't make them not broken
someone else can pull them from the dumpster and try to fix them. They will always be broken there, sometimes it enhances the look, sometimes not
i just didn't need them
what do you need frank for you not for her or for her to come home...remove her from the equation
what do you need for you
work on that list until some things are crossed off