maybe he was being snarky...

like a joke

maybe he was saying and I would let her back when hellll froze over

maybe


frank
you don't want that mess to come back

you don't need to accept crap just because it's crap


like...
i moved
i didn't realize how much crap I had accumulated, what I held onto because I had spent money on it, how many boxes of things I kept that were broken that I was going to fix...

i filled a 20 ton dumpster

I am throwing away more now that I am moved

don't do that


think of how much cleaner, less stressful my life would have been without boxes of crap that I was going to fix laying around

there were some nice things
didn't make them not broken

someone else can pull them from the dumpster and try to fix them. They will always be broken there, sometimes it enhances the look, sometimes not

i just didn't need them

what do you need frank
for you
not for her or for her to come home...remove her from the equation

what do you need for you

work on that list until some things are crossed off

you can't afford to let her home