Don't you hate it when the DB sessions end? (even if they can be painful)
Do you have some sort of deadline on the finances? If not, then it does seem like a good idea to let him initiate the contact on this.
I'm glad to hear that it somehow reduces your anxiety to not contact your H. This can only be a good thing :).
Just wondering, I see in your signature that your H said he didn't want to try anymore in May. Has he softened since then? Have you had conversations or done things that show you that maybe he is willing to try? Your last meeting sounded positive, and I know that you are making progress from reading your threads, would just love to hear a little bit more about how you think things are going.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
