Strong Boundaries and Standing up for myself

[faithisbelieving]

nicely done

next step is the letting it go after it happens.

you are doing a great job

Next step is saying, "I'm sorry, you can't come over tonite since I am having friends over"

so, who is taking 'odds' that she tries to 'come home'. ??
what time frame?

With this quote, I am taking odds that you are going to get hurt again. As horrible as it sounds, your mantra should be: "G-d bless those who expect nothing for they shall never be disappointed."

Frank---go back to your more solid thinking...grieve the loss and believe what Gray says. Reconciliation probably can NEVER occur until the R is over.

You're going to get hurt again if you don't 'let go'. Trust me..it's not easy...even for me in the middle of D.

Let go of the match frank or you're gonna get burned. Place bets on the success of your next internet project.
FIB