well..... a stragety would be doing necessary things for the wrong reasons. isincere, deceptive, empty. all are descriptions of this kind of stragety, if in fact that is what it is. i don't think it's a stragety. fact is this is the only way that he would be able to detach and grow and get healthy, with an unintended consequence of her seeing it and "coming back". but also realizing that both need the same amount of growth and healing, this is the only way it could get done. first and foremost worry about frank, then the m.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
