I am glad you can recognize it for what it is. You are getting so good at this.
When people come up and comment like that, I would just respond......"oh, I'm not worried....it is actually kind of funny" or "oh please.....he is just being an a$$" and smile show everyone your strength
If you look at it from a thrid party perspective....think about what it looks like to a person that doesn't know any of you to watch your H flirt with a young thing. Kind of like the commercial where the middle age men are holding in their stomachs while a very hot young lady strolls by.
Not looking to make light of your pain, just trying to give a different way of looking at it.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning