She said kind of said not to contact but again we were running out of time.
It has worked sort of in the past. When I got the second bomb back in May I went dark and my h contacted me once a week. I responded when he contacted me. It was a surprise that he did. I just feel that he will look at the finance stuff as pressure if I try and force contact. Also, one of his gripes was that he couldn't balance his busy job with my 'demands' so if I don;t seem demanding then I hope it will be a 180 and show him more of my changes. It has also helped my anxiety a lot to just decide not to contact as I now don't sit there and wait for contact. which I did for so long!
