at the time all I could think of was why do I need to change my name.. I love my name.. and yet I was okay with the thought of changing it for a child. Why wasn't I okay with changing it for my husband? I was a fool I guess.
W2G - that really struck a chord with me, that was exactly my thinking.
T - I am reading Passionate Marriage (interspersed with Bridget Jones which is a bizarre combination but reading thought I might get some weird looks on the train if I sat there with a copy of Passionate Marriage). It is bringing up some really interesting stuff for me, I'll note some of it down and post to you.
Still no word from h about meeting up to discuss finances, even though he said he would contact me this week. I suppose the puppy picture is better contact than finances though on the bright side. I have been compleately dark all week. I think I am going to stay that way as everytime I suggest a meeting to discuss finances I come off looking like I am nagging. I will wait and see if he makes contact next week.