Starbucks is a lifesaver :). Unfortunately I don't think we have one in Wroclaw, but I've always felt really nice going to a Starbucks for a few hours and getting lost in work.
I know how you feel about having a small group of friends and finding something to do when none of them are available. Are there things that you can do to distract yourself (beyond the writing and church which both sound really positive)assuming that you are going to be on your own? For me, pre-bomb, if my H was on an extended business trip or I was otherwise alone and didn't want to be, I'd get a couple of movies, or watch some silly TV shows or something for a few hours. Sometimes I would also have a glass or 2 of red wine, and maybe something decadent to eat. As I see it from your post, you have plans for Saturday day (writing and Starbucks), and Sunday morning. So you don't actually have that much time you need to fill, even though I know it can seem like an eternity...
Also I don't know if I've missed this in your posts, but are you exercising, doing any workouts of any kind?
Thinking good thoughts for you, ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!