Thank you Lan. I know my M is a long way from being perfect, but it is so much better than it was even before the OM came into the picture. If I had not been so unhappy before.....then I would never have turned to OM.

Anyway, we are doing okay. He is a little over four years older than me, and his heart problems has taken a toll on him in more ways than one. He still tries to work and the entire family (his side also) uses him to run them to the doctor and everything else.....and I have to fight to keep from feeling a lot of resentment there b/c he has to miss a day of work to take them to the doctor, whereas, the SIL or whoever, doesn't miss any work. I don't see that as being very fair....but he is his own boss and he is the one that has to tell them he can't do it b/c he needs to work that day.

I need to get over to your thread to check on you two and see how things are going. The last I remembered, it was better and I felt good about what I had read. Hope everything is still coming along. I'll have to see what all you've accomplished around the house, etc. Sure hope once it is completed that the W will be pleased and feel 'completed' in some way.

I'll talk to you soon.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!