Well that's another dumb one I've now heard. Doesn't want to help with moving S18 to college next month?! Geeze. I was right there with x1 and her hubby moving DD into the freshmen dorm and out, same with soph year, junior year in the frat/sorority house and finally senior year in the apartment. The three of us adults were right there lugging the stuff up and down the stairs. Last load, for the last time graduating senior, my x1's hubby looked at me and said " wow!, seems like we just did this for the first time and now it's over ". And I said "I wouldn't have missed any of it". Nod of approval. Headed down the highway with three cars, unloaded at x1s,sat down and had a couple of beers together and some high 5s. Wanker (I'll refrain from other adjectives) doesn't know what he's going to be missing. You enjoy moving S18 in (save the tears til after). It will go way too fast!