YOU are talking to Mr. Take everything personal here.........You think you have it bad being sensitive women.......look at me... Rob is right... HARD but you need to try to just let the "attacks" go. (As long as they are not physical). Picture this..... It was HOT the other day W went to store with son to pick up school clothes. I stayed home and was not going anywhere and W knew this. So I am out front working in the yard Sweating and wife pulls up with son. BOTH eating an ice cream. W just kind of stared at me like saying... "What?" "Man you guys got an Ice Cream" W says "ya I decided to stop on the way home" Now I am not comparing this to being yelled at like you have been but it is VERY easy for a "sensitive" guy to feel left out. To let this ruin my whole day thinking. I would have called her if I was the one stopping for Ice cream. But I didn't. I went inside and made me a BIG chocolate shake... I can take care of myself. You do have your children to think about Tal... As much progress as I have made I came across the C.d that had the wife and OM pictures on it, it was blank and I forgot what was on it. RIGHT when the pic’s popped up W calls. So I am looking at her w another man and talking to her............ Anyway sorry for straying. We need to keep trying for the kids. If it was not for my son I do think I would have been long gone. W has still NOT committed herself to our marriage. I ordered the book Saffie wanted me to read and W said she will "try" to read it. We have three more weekends, (well two and a half. At the end on that time I am going to tell w I need an answer. I NEED to know will she promise NOT to see anyone while we are still married. I don't think she is but I need to hear it. Tal enjoys your time with your kids. My son is ll. as much as it is a pain sometimes to go swimming or play a game with him when I have other things to do I know there isn’t much longer until he will not want to play or swing with me.. Have you asked your H about Retro? It may not help the marriage but I will tell you one thing It does Improve communication and respect for others feelings if nothing else...
Take care Tal
Oh ya Utah is East from here....
Dr LOve.
P.S you got my e-mail vent whenever
P.S.S where the pictures PICTURES ????
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
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