Sorry that you find yourself here. Your BF might not be in a MLC but it sounds like he is in some sort of crisis where he is examining himself and his whole life, and finding out that he is not happy and he wants to make some changes. I know its really hard when the person that you love the most, can hurt you in such a way.
I can only promise that it gets better from here. To start with try reading all you can on these boards. And then start Getting A Life (GAL). Dont focus on BF and what he might be doing or thinking, or what is going to happen with your relationship. Its all so unknown. In the meantime start to think of some new hobbies that you want to do, some new places you can meet people, new goals and dreams. Pamper yourself! Go shopping! Try new makeup, hairstyles. Re-decorate a room in your apartment. You can do it!!
For me personally I had to break my life into 30 minute segments at the start. And then I would ask myself, "what is something nice I can do for myself for the next 30 minutes?" (checking his facebook status is not something enjoyable, so dont chose that!)
It is entirely possible that you will be able to attract your BF back to you. The best way for you to be attractive is to focus on being happy and knowing what you want in your life.
