I'm back home. Just finished sorting the mail. There is a card from H sent on the eve of our anniversary. I'd love to know what you all think of this message:

I hope on this anniversary you consider our relationship a success. I do, for we have both grown immensely through it.
Thank-you for helping me through the bad times, celebrating with me the good times. You are a good person, and I wish you nothing but health and happiness.

Friends forever,


Me: 59
H: 59
Together: 28 years
Married: 25 years in August
"There may be someone else" 12/26/07
H signed a one year lease 4/1/08
H moved out 5/11/08
H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08
Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08