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LolaL #1566468 08/21/08 09:27 PM
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Hi Lola...yes I'll be disappointed if he says no but I won't let on to him that I am. I'm going to get ready to go out no matter what so it's either the movie or meeting some friends.

I'll let you guys know what he says....it's been 15 minutes now and no sesponse \:\(


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That's okay though, maybe he is thinking about it...or he has not gotten the message yet.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

LolaL #1566475 08/21/08 09:33 PM
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Yes he could bge thinking, or he could be seeing to D too since he's with her or he might be away from the computer. I sent him a text just then about work with no mention of the movie.


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Good deal. Just keep your chin up and breath...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

LolaL #1566484 08/21/08 09:39 PM
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If he says no, how about responding with something like, "OK, I just wanted to make sure. I was asked to go out with some friends and thought I should double check before I told them yes. Talk to you later."


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ok thats a perfect response to "no"...I hope I don't have to use it tonight \:\)


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Ho do I respond to this..."what time is the freaking movie again? Don't really want to go after last night"????


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"It's at 10. If you don't want to go, I will go out with some friends." Maybe?

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OMG! Then just tell him exactly what Floyd said. He is obviously not conducive to going out with you right now and better not to push it.


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Say, "It's ok if you don't want to go. I was asked to go out with some friends so I wanted to make sure before I said yes. Talk to you later."


Works for almost anything. It's very "act as if" and GAL.


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